
More often than not these days my life feels like an overstuffed sock drawer. You know what I mean don't you? The drawer you just keep cramming socks into until it can't hold anymore and when you need to open it to find something all it's contents kind of explode all over the place leaving a big mess? My life is so full.... rewarding and overwhelming at times but definitely full. Speaking of full..... we are re-numbering our herd this week. I think I mentioned before that some exciting changes are coming to the Koppes household... well the change has begun. G2 moved on last week and no longer lives with us. We are really going to miss her uncanny ability to make even the dullest scenario something hilarious. Here's a final funny moment with G2... while eating dinner on her last night with us, G2 held a serrated edged knife carefully and examined it's shiny blade. "What are those bumpy things on the knife?" G2 enquired. "They're called teeth" I said. G2 looked at me quizzically, her brow furrowed and stated, "but they're not white!" That's the kind of innocent humour I am going to miss from her. But with so many other children in our home some one's bound to have something funny to say once in a while .... G2 seemed to have it down to an art though.

Please keep us in prayer as our family goes through an exciting "change" this week and watch for upcoming details!!!! I can't wait to share my joy.
On June 27th my hubby went Paint Balling with our Youth Group ... as you can see from the picture, he wasn't very good at it. He did have fun, right up until the point of impact. Poor guy. He was so pumped about going and unloading a few rounds on a certain "pastor friend" of his. His injuries could have been so much worse than they were. When he saw him that afternoon B3 said "Daddy, you look like a pirate." Hahaha. His eye continues to heal and he is expected to make a full recovery ... and yes, he would jump at the chance to do it all over again!
The Canada Day Celebration was just as spectacular as ever. Our whole family enjoyed every minute of it - right down to the fireworks display at the end of the evening. With so much going on that evening you'd think no one would notice little things..... well I have to congratulate B2 for being so observant. He had been sitting on the blanket laid out in front of our chairs playing with a friend of his from church. Suddenly B2 was in front of me, staring into my eyes with great anxiety in his voice he said "I think Makirah got stolen!" I turned to look in the direction he indicated and chuckled to myself when I realized the "thief" was actually a grandparent.
My children can be pretty protective and nurturing at times.... except when it comes to back yard BBQ's and roasting Marshmallows. We built a fire in our back yard so that the children could roast marshmallows. Things went alright until they started to compete to be the one to roast the "best marshmallow". A little while later they had a knock down drag out " firefly hunting competition. Each child had an empty water bottle and their goal was to collect the most, or brightest fireflies. They ran from one end of the yard to the other each determined to outdo the others..... it was an interesting evening to say the least. The event finally took a weird turn and the kids all used their plastic water bottles to hit each other with. They chased each other through out the yard smacking each other with bottles - what fun! They didn't catch any fire flies - the only thing poor B3 caught was "skeetoes".
Baby G3 or should I say Baby G2 (new order to the herd) is sprouting her first couple of teeth! There are two white razor sharp chompers in that mouth now.... a very dangerous situation. It's similar to a puppy teething .... chewing and slobbering on everything! The frozen teething rings have become her favourite toys and she has acquired a taste for oragel. She has been cranky and uncomfortable.... Hmmmm, sounds like G1, I wonder if she's teething too? (Just kidding)
Mike took the boys to EB Games the other day to look for a couple new video games for the PS2. He found some new ones and brought them home. The boys were so excited and could hardly wait to try them out. At dinner time B2 was praying and he said "Thank you Lord for daddy getting 2 new games, bless it as use to our bodies, Amen."

My hubby and I were away this past weekend in Sault Ste Marie for the Teen Challenge North Golf Tournament. Thank you by the way to everyone who sponsored us for this tournament. The two of us combined raised $2240.00 for the Teen Challenge North Program. The total amount raised this year from all participants combined was about $88,000.00. We had such a nice time away. It is always a little stressful for me to plan and prepare to leave the kids with someone else. There are so many thing to consider and so many arrangements to make. Access visits have to be rescheduled and drivers have to be arranged, appointments have to be booked for alternate dates, prescriptions need to be filled, daily schedules need to be written down in detail, social workers need to be notified well in advance and proper permissions obtained. Sometimes it just seems easier to stay home. I am so glad I didn't stay home this weekend. We left on Friday and drove through the USA. In all our arranging we had forgotten an important bit of information.... it was the July 4th weekend and we were driving through the USA.... on a holiday weekend!?!?!? What were we thinking??? Obviously we weren't ..... We were late but it wasn't as bad as it could have been.... next time we will check the calendar before heading across the boarder. So we arrived later than planned and went right to Teen Challenge to pick up our Bigger Boy. We haven't seen him since April 20th. He looked great - and so much taller. He regularly spends time at the gym and it shows. He is much more relaxed and "together". Already he is such a different young man than he was only two and a half months ago when he went into the program. He still has a long way to go but we are very proud of him and the progress he has already made. Our Bigger Boy was able to spend the whole weekend with us - even staying in our hotel room. Saturday was the actual day of the 50 hole golf tournament. It was hot and sunny and we didn't think to put on the sun screen until we were already a pretty shade of pink. I was privileged to be the golf cart driver and after a little practice I got the hang of it. I was also the official "lost golf ball finder." We are not the serious "quiet on the green" golfers..... of the three of us, my hubby is the only one who has ever really played golf before. I find it a little boring and well, I don't know....

I am just not a golfer. I am not good at it, I am not even "okay" at it, I pretty much stink when it comes to golf. Our Bigger Boy had never picked up a golf club before ... so our team's reputation and success depended upon my hubby. Thank God he knew what he was doing. Can you imagine the three of us out there without a clue? Although I didn't golf, I was the best golf cart driver, lost ball finder, and caddy going. By 36 holes we were tired. By 45 we were wandering around aimlessly looking at geese, chasing a snake through the trees, and looking for golf balls I'm still not convinced even existed. We were all more than relieved when it was all over. We enjoyed a well deserved meal and awards banquet and then went back to the hotel for some R&R. My hubby and Bigger Boy went swimming while I stayed behind in the room to chat on the computer with G1 who was really, really missing us. (I am going to remind her of that someday)
On Sunday morning we attended church service with our Bigger Boy and then went out for a quick lunch. We dropped him off after lunch and began or long journey home. It took us even longer to get home. It was an American holiday weekend - what were we thinking??!?!?!
On the way home my hubby got a phone call letting him know that someone had passed away and the family has requested that he do the funeral. The funeral would be held the following day. So that was the topic of conversation for a while.... until we got hungry and pulled in to a Ponderosa Steak House for dinner. I had never been to Ponderosa before. I don't eat steak so I really have no need for a steak house do I? This was not what I expected. I assumed it would be much like The Keg or other places that promote "steak dinners." Well you know what happens when one assumes...... I was really disillusioned (for lack of a better word) at our experience. Have you ever been to a Ponderosa Steak House?!?! It is like a fast food/buffet style restaurant guaranteed to clog your arteries with every plate ... and you can go back up and get as much as you want! What a bargain! You order your "steak" or chicken in my case, at the counter and choose your silverware from large bins (real sanitary), grab a cafeteria style tray from the rack, then push it along the counter top until you reach the pop machines where you fill your own cup (careful, not too much ice), then continue along to the smiling cashier at the end of the counter who happily takes your money and tells you to grab a table and show your receipt to the server when she comes. Before you sit down in your booth you should look for things that may have fallen off the plates of previous diners. A big fat greasy stain across your butt cheeks isn't pretty and neither is the ketchup or gravy marks across your elbows and forearms from leaning against the edge of the table. There's nothing I despise more than "unclean" restaurants..... regardless of their level of "class." Except...... maybe ones that are designed to kill you with every fork full of food! Our server came to the table to check our receipt and told us to go ahead to the buffet. We grabbed a plate from the stack and started with salad.....hmmmmm....suspicious......warm salad.... too close to the heat lamps keeping the rest of the food above bacteria growing levels??? Moving along I noticed that everything appeared to be cooked in butter (or some sort of oily substance) there was a whole section for fried chicken and fried fish, mountains of mashed potatoes, a whole section for sauces and gravies, desserts.....puddings, fruit swimming in syrup, and a weird looking whipped cream concoction with crushed cookies in it. Then came the veggies - OH how I longed for steamed broccoli or baby carrots..... instead what I found made me gag. a large bin of soggy cut up green beans (looked like they came right out of the can) in some watery stuff with an oily sheen to it, and a mountain of corn soaking in the same watery stuff. Where the heck were the vegetables?!?!?! I need roughage!!! I have been away from home for a few days and am so tired of "foreign food" I want something I'm used to - my body is craving steamed veggies! So I reluctantly scooped up some soggy beans and tired looking corn. (Every ladle/serving spoon handle was nasty.... sticky and dirty, Ewww) We sat down and prayed - we felt a strong need to ask a blessing on our food. The salad wasn't as bad as I thought it would be - but it may have just been my need for greens that made it seem better than it looked. I dug into the beans and almost spit them out - they tasted like hotdogs!!!! Not that I regularly eat hotdogs, but they had that essence.... you know. Like they were cooked in the same water a dozen wieners had just been boiled in - so nasty! I was afraid to eat the corn because they had been swimming in the same watery substance... yup, they were tainted as well. The chicken breast was "different" all curled up on the ends, like it had been sitting under the lamps a little too long. I ordered Chicken Montery. My hubby looked at my plate with a raised eyebrow and asked, "what makes it MONTERY?" I told him I figured it was the smear of bright orange sauce along the top of it but I couldn't be sure. We ate in silence.... both too disappointed to say a word. I could almost feel my arteries contract with each forkful. I tried to wash it down but the pop was just as disappointing. The pop tasted watery and I figured it was like that with ALL the beverages in the USA because I can recall having another type of canned American beverage before and discovering the same thing. Who EATS this stuff!?!?!?! I wonder if heart disease is the number one killer in the USA, it wouldn't surprise me if it was. My hubby gave up on the food (which really is amazing if you know him) and resorted to eating dessert foods only .... yup, that pile of whipped cream with crumbled cookies in it. He topped it off with a sticky ladle of vanilla pudding. I couldn't get out of there fast enough. I'd rather sit in the back up traffic along the highway and discuss funeral service arrangement rather than spend another minute in that cholesterol-laden cafeteria. So we did.
We finally got back home after 1 am and spent about half an hour unpacking and being debriefed by my in laws who graciously agreed to stay with the herd while we were away. It was soooo good to be home! It had taken us over 12 hours to get home and all we wanted was our bed and out own pillows. I was almost giddy slipping into the fresh sheets (yes I changed the sheets and made up our bed at 1:30 am - and yes I DO have a few idiosyncrasies) and sleep came easily.
Then the phone rang at 3 am.....

It was my sister Cherie calling to ask for a ride to the hospital as the ambulance had just picked up her husband. Al had a heart attack. I could hardly believe what she was saying on the phone - I thought I was so over tired that I just wasn't hearing it right. He is not even 40 years old yet.... how does a young guy like that have a heart attack? (*Then I thought of the Ponderosa Steak House..... and wondered how everyone WASN'T having heart attacks.) As Mike was getting ready to pick up Cherie and take her to the hospital, someone from the hospital called to speak to Rev. Koppes - I hate phone calls like that - it's never good news. They said that Al Brundritt was just brought in and is having a heart attack asked for Pastor Mike. So Mike picked up Cherie and they went to the hospital to be with Al. I can't remember what time it was when he got in... but he sure hadn't had much sleep. The herd started rousing from sleep around 7am. I had no choice but to get up and tend to them. Baby G2 was especially excited to see me and squealed loudly.... it's her new skill. Poor Mike dragged himself out of bed and put on his best pastor face :) then started making phone calls to find out the funeral arrangements for the day. He picked up Cherie and the kids and brought them here so the kids could stay with us while Cherie tended to Al in the hospital. Thank God I am used to large numbers.... the three Brundritt children moved in temporarily and that brought our kid count to 8. Then on Tuesday when little G3 & Little G4 arrived we had a whopping 10 kiddlings in the house. It was interesting and certainly entertaining.
Mike did the funeral he had to do and tended to the grieving family that afternoon.
I am always amazed at my husbands ability to "do what needs doing." Even as he's running in and out of the house taking care of things that need to be done, he still stops to tickle a grumpy 5 year old or give kisses to the baby. I really respect a man who takes time out of his busyness to just cuddle with one of the kids. When I was a boy-crazy teenager listing my turn ons and turn offs in a guy, "kind and gentle to children" was NOT one of the turn ons on my list.... but it sure is now. Pardon me for my forwardness - but nothing is sexier to me than a man who can love his God unashamedly, play with his children gently and cherish his family above his own interests. *Ya, and I can hear my hubby now "who's the man?" *You are honey :) And I thank God for you.
On Tuesday Al was airlifted to London hospital and Mike drove Cherie there to be with him. The kids thought it was very cool to be able to stand out on the back porch and watch the helicopter carrying Al fly by.
My sister Kim was able to go to London to visit with Cherie one day - which I know she appreciated. Speaking of appreciation ... I just wanted to say Thank You on behalf of Cherie and Al and their children for all the generosity and kindness many of you have shown. Some incredible people have been dropping off meals and gift cards for the grocery store, and even giving Cherie long distance minutes to be able to use the phone while she's in London. All of these things to help alleviate some of their stress at this time - The Brundritt family is truly thankful for what you've done - God bless you.
As I sit here writing, it is Thursday (I know the blog entry date is different but I began this entry a couple days ago and have been working on it in between diapers, lol) anyway.... I just received a phone call from Cherie in London. The doctor is releasing Al from the hospital today and Mike has just left to go pick them up. Their children will likely stay here for a few days yet while Cherie gets Al settled in at home. So far things have been running pretty smoothly around here - at any rate I am never at a loss for things to write about with a herd this size.
Enjoy your week and stay healthy!
~God bless you~